{"id":17526,"date":"2019-08-18T18:41:31","date_gmt":"2019-08-18T22:41:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/?p=17526"},"modified":"2019-08-18T21:54:47","modified_gmt":"2019-08-19T01:54:47","slug":"35th-anniversary-photo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/?p=17526","title":{"rendered":"Henry and Cathy \u2014 35 Years"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_17528\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17528\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925-350x233.jpg\" alt=\"Henry and Cathy \u2014 35 Years\" width=\"350\" height=\"233\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-17528\" data-wp-pid=\"17528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925-350x233.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925-800x533.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/img_20190818_168925.jpg 1800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-17528\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Henry and Cathy \u2014 35 Years<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Thirty-five years ago, Cathy and I were married. Has it been magical? I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d go that far. But it&#8217;s been pretty darn good and I think we&#8217;ve shown we&#8217;re in it for the long haul. I won&#8217;t say there haven&#8217;t been any rough times but over all I&#8217;d say we&#8217;ve done pretty well. There have been trials from outside and we&#8217;ve weathered those together. There have been trials from within and we&#8217;ve made it through those, also. I lean on her, she leans on me, and so far we&#8217;ve managed to stay standing, even if we stagger from time to time. I won&#8217;t claim to be a magnificent catch, but I try to do my part and she seems to be okay with me. Of course, as in all relationships that are worth anything, we try to remember to set aside a little time for silliness. Humor, which often means sarcasm, is a big part of the equation. Anyway, the deal was supposed to be that we&#8217;d grow old together. As you can see from the photo, she&#8217;s not growing old as fast as I am, which I think is a little unfair.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thirty-five years ago, Cathy and I were married. Has it been magical? I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d go that far. But it&#8217;s been pretty darn good and I think we&#8217;ve shown we&#8217;re in it for the long haul. I won&#8217;t say there haven&#8217;t been any rough times but over all I&#8217;d say we&#8217;ve done pretty well. &hellip; <a class=\"read-excerpt\" href=\"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/?p=17526\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&raquo;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[1079,171,47,1004,1593,858,400,1049],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17526"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17526"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17526\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17533,"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17526\/revisions\/17533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.henryhartley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}